Kyle Frederick Gray


Fonda – Kyle Frederick Gray of Fonda, N.Y. passed away suddenly on June 20, 2022, with his loving family by his side. Kyle was born in Amsterdam, NY on September 2,1981, the son of Charles & Deborah Gray. He graduated from Fonda-Fultonville Central School in 2000.
Kyle was best known for being a big guy, but having a HUGE HEART! Kyle loved racing go-karts, his racing number was #41, (also his dad’s racing number), watching stock car races, working on anything mechanical, painting, hunting, fishing, swimming, snowmobiling (roosting his sister on the snow machine every chance he got), skiing, taking care of his sister’s horses, loving all animals, and most of all, waiting for his 2 daughters to walk into the door so they could tackle whatever it is their heart desired.
Kyle’s greatest and most cherished accomplishment in life are his 2 amazing and adorable daughters, Violet Ann Gray, age 7 and Scarlet Marie Gray, age 6. Kyle absolutely cherished his daughters and was a big kid himself. He loved teaching his girls how to paint, tinker with toys and gadgets, swim, roller skate, drive 4-wheelers, ride bikes, ride horses and so much more. Kyle was a long term resident of Fonda and always looked forward to Saturday night stock car racing, to visit the Fonda-Fair to socialize with everyone he knew, and to tend to his sister’s horses. Kyle took every opportunity he could to be his sister’s right hand horse handler.
Survivors include his Parents, Charles and Deborah Gray; Daughter’s, Violet Ann Gray and Scarlet Marie Gray, Sister, Junell Pasquarelli (Thomas), Brother’s, Gregory Perron (Lisa) and Charles L. Gray, his dog Ms. Molly, and several nieces and nephews.
The family will hold a Memorial/Celebration of Life at a later date to honor Kyle Frederick.
In lieu of flowers, contributions can be made for his daughter’s. An account has been set up for each daughter. Checks may be made payable to: Violet Gray OR Scarlet Gray and mailed in
C/O Charles F. Gray, (their grandfather & guardian on account) to 130 Hughes Rd, Amsterdam, NY 12010 or a donation made in memory to an animal shelter of your choice. Kyle Frederick, you will be greatly missed by your family & friends! We love you bud. Your only job now is to protect and guide your Daughter’s from Heaven above! As your family, we will strive to fill your shoes with continuing to teach your children un-conditional love, laughter and fun throughout their lives, among many other things!


By LH Staff

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